(04-13-2011, 05:01 AM)Meerie Wrote: It sucked, but not so much because I was the affair, and not the official girlfriend / spouse , but because it always had to be kept secret :@
And in the end it is unfair toward the other woman. I wouldn't do it again.
What was your reasoning in pursuing it?
(04-13-2011, 07:30 AM)3DMonkey Wrote: Like anything, too much of one thing is not good.
Mhm, over-activation. As far as alcohol, I was never someone who needed a drink but I can tell you that once you stop drinking, for me at least I noticed considerable changes in my seeking. I was a heavy social drinker that slowed down to a once a week thing, which I eventually stop too. I firmly believe that alcohol is fertile ground for negative manipulation..not just when you're drunk, but in general.