(03-10-2011, 01:28 PM)3DMonkey Wrote: my frustrations are open for all to see, there is no denying that. I am being me. (something you request.) I assure you, in all sincerity, I desire for unity to be at peace. My discernment, browsing through all posts, is that his peace has been compromised. I want (my point) to open his heart and mind to see that it IS all okay and that love IS more available than fear and things like weapons.
I appreciate your desire to help brother. I have been through the same process with unity; we have discussed our different beliefs and understandings regarding particular subjects. Much balancing occurred on my part, which is why we're talking together now.
What I learned from those discussions is that even when your intention is to help, it's help defined by your own beliefs. This is the crux of most forum discussions, even when coming from an open heart; "Think my way and things will be better for you".
This is not to say one must not offer help. Offering help is a beautiful, caring thing to do, natural to STO entities.
The key is that one needs to balance the self and avoid generating STS emotions (frustration, in your own case) based on the (re)actions of another. Doing so moves you from STO to STS based frequencies. The entire point of the offering then flips on it's head, and the opposite effect occurs; negative emotions are directed towards the individual, rather than love.
3DMonkey Wrote:Accepting the One is the clear indicator of positive polarization. Finding things to disapprove of is not "compassion" "empathy" "goodwill" "desire to serve" that make up #1 in the forum rules
Agree entirely. This is the exact message I'm attempting to open to you regarding unity and his beliefs.
I'm offering help to you brother, just as you to unity. The key is to not become frustrated if that help is not resonant with them, as your loving soul falls off track, even if for a brief moment.