03-11-2011, 02:51 AM
(03-11-2011, 02:11 AM)3DMonkey Wrote:(03-11-2011, 02:02 AM)Bring4th_Monica Wrote:(03-11-2011, 01:17 AM)3DMonkey Wrote: He's made it clear I'm not worthy to be noticed by him.
Whoa, in all fairness, I think this is a huge misinterpretation.
Someone choosing to walk away from a discussion simply means that they wish to avoid whatever discord is in the discussion, or maybe they don't find it fruitful or constructive, for whatever reason. It's quite a stretch to assume that they are projecting 'unworthiness' on the other person.
To All: We have a thread whose purpose is to work out personal conflicts and seek understanding. Issues can be discussed and, hopefully, resolved there, so that threads can stay on-topic and not get derailed by personal miscommunications.
Well, with all due respect, this is a bit more than "walking away from a discussion"
Quote: i will opt out of replying to your posts, from this point on. It is a plain statement that replying to me is beneath him, forever. To walk away is to walk away, not get the last word in. No, I don't want to walk away, but at the same time...
I'm not the one that keeps bringing this back up, but I will gladly meet unity100 in the "work it out thread". Don't think he is too much interested in that.
le sigh... there is a fundamental thing i don't think he understands. that our very perception of what we expect and see of the world is exactly what we get. after my little bout with unity on the media thread... i was really affected by unity in my personal life. things kept seeming out of place and like people kept bumping into me more than usual and just being even more rude.
what was actually happening was that i was attracting that from my very thoughts on the matter. the whole why doesn't anyone understand me, and let's be frank. it was more just being irate with the whole situation... instead of continuing that train of thought i just dropped it and the whole world became a better place.. i took a step forward and deflected any other negativity pointed at myself, and at others and positivity started rolling back into my life.
it's nice to know i'm not the only one that strikes a bad chord. i thought it was just me
