03-12-2022, 01:27 PM
Thank you for your response Diana.
It's so tough to lose someone so close, and when you talk about the pain resurfacing no matter how much time has passed, that sucks but it gives me some wisdom as to what might be ahead.
I feel you're completely right on the acceptance part, I feel I have accepted it and then there's split seconds occasionally where I still think she's here, then I remember. So I think that shows I haven't quite accepted it yet. But that's a huge contrast to when it first happened and I would walk around and feel I was seeing her in supermarkets, when really it was just a lady with similar hair etc or I would see the same car that she drove and think it was her for a moment too.
"I feel the pain and I accept that too" has been really helpful and inspiring for me already, so thanks so much for this. I'm feeling and accepting pain as I write this
It's so tough to lose someone so close, and when you talk about the pain resurfacing no matter how much time has passed, that sucks but it gives me some wisdom as to what might be ahead.
I feel you're completely right on the acceptance part, I feel I have accepted it and then there's split seconds occasionally where I still think she's here, then I remember. So I think that shows I haven't quite accepted it yet. But that's a huge contrast to when it first happened and I would walk around and feel I was seeing her in supermarkets, when really it was just a lady with similar hair etc or I would see the same car that she drove and think it was her for a moment too.
"I feel the pain and I accept that too" has been really helpful and inspiring for me already, so thanks so much for this. I'm feeling and accepting pain as I write this
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