a very interesting thought indeed - and to be perfectly honest i rather have the opposite as my challenge.
I tend to quickly develope very close relations to the people in my environment. What I rather deal with is my own expection to be "loved back equally".
It happened countless times already in my life that ultimately i was disappointed or rather say hurt in my feelings/heart/love when people showed me their "real face" - not necessarily always a "bad" real face but usually I tend to expect too much compassion and attention on each one's thoughts and feelings from the people around me and that is why i often became disappointed and frustrated/depressed.
I just recently "discovered" the idea of unconditional love and keeping one's mind tuned in to positive thoughts and feelings.
I must add that i did not learn about the LOO before the beginning of this year - but my "way of perception and feeling" has always been a very "too much loving one". So I am so greatful for this kind of information to finally be able understand how to work upon my challenges - why i am here the way i am - so to speak.
So what i now do is that i do not set these expectations any more and simply love and when i am let down by someone on any issue no matter if small or large i try not to be bothered/frustrated to be forgiving and to focus on all the other love around me (and) to cheer me up (I noticed somehow almost every person i know sees the glas half empty - i try to turn this way of dealing with things around to rather focus on a drop in a glass before being negative about why it's empty).
Besides I ask the creator while meditating to help me to strengthen my understanding/forgiveness/love ability and I also hope/whish for that person to as well
discover the love which makes life so beautiful - since i believe if everyone just loved each other we'd be in 4th density for quite sometime already (of course
).
Since I started doing all this and basically have my mind always dealing with thoughts of understanding, love and positivity,
my life got way nicer - and even the small things now become more and more beautiful - plus it seems one attracts more and more situations in which ones love is tested - so if one can get through these and polarize more also good things happen unexpectidly quick - obviously there are infinite ways for catalysts to come
(both kind).
Why i write this is that my challenge was/is too much love and the feeling of being let down or hurt quickly made me depressed -
so "all" i had to do is to go inside myself and change my own expectations and my focus of perception -
thus not being too hard on myself and on others in order to slowly but surely learn how the way of unconditional love works
much love everyone
Alex
I tend to quickly develope very close relations to the people in my environment. What I rather deal with is my own expection to be "loved back equally".
It happened countless times already in my life that ultimately i was disappointed or rather say hurt in my feelings/heart/love when people showed me their "real face" - not necessarily always a "bad" real face but usually I tend to expect too much compassion and attention on each one's thoughts and feelings from the people around me and that is why i often became disappointed and frustrated/depressed.
I just recently "discovered" the idea of unconditional love and keeping one's mind tuned in to positive thoughts and feelings.
I must add that i did not learn about the LOO before the beginning of this year - but my "way of perception and feeling" has always been a very "too much loving one". So I am so greatful for this kind of information to finally be able understand how to work upon my challenges - why i am here the way i am - so to speak.
So what i now do is that i do not set these expectations any more and simply love and when i am let down by someone on any issue no matter if small or large i try not to be bothered/frustrated to be forgiving and to focus on all the other love around me (and) to cheer me up (I noticed somehow almost every person i know sees the glas half empty - i try to turn this way of dealing with things around to rather focus on a drop in a glass before being negative about why it's empty).
Besides I ask the creator while meditating to help me to strengthen my understanding/forgiveness/love ability and I also hope/whish for that person to as well
discover the love which makes life so beautiful - since i believe if everyone just loved each other we'd be in 4th density for quite sometime already (of course
). Since I started doing all this and basically have my mind always dealing with thoughts of understanding, love and positivity,
my life got way nicer - and even the small things now become more and more beautiful - plus it seems one attracts more and more situations in which ones love is tested - so if one can get through these and polarize more also good things happen unexpectidly quick - obviously there are infinite ways for catalysts to come
(both kind).
Why i write this is that my challenge was/is too much love and the feeling of being let down or hurt quickly made me depressed -
so "all" i had to do is to go inside myself and change my own expectations and my focus of perception -
thus not being too hard on myself and on others in order to slowly but surely learn how the way of unconditional love works
much love everyone
Alex