Why/How to prefer love?

[Sunclarity]

This wanting is not wrong or bad considering the inherent positive nature of the distortion

I'm not sure about this one. Someone wanna chime in?

Sunclarity, I am not sure this is a right answer, but wouldn't be the actual need to know love, a clear indication of how disharmony feels an off thing in the line of evolution ?

There is no right or wrong in the fact of wanting, since evolution by itself wants something,  but perhaps the feeling of not quite getting what love means in 3D is because your soul knows what it really is out of 3 D ?

I believe I feel where my particular confusion comes from. I'm still trying to formulate a logical reason based in physical, 3D manifestations to fully explain/embrace love. This is not possible, so I was stuck, but your comment was enlightening in that regard for it allowed me to rebring to mind that the pure form of love as we know it, truly is the next, most logical step in our growth/existence. We can refuse it, but that won't change what it is. Thank you.