06-09-2019, 10:46 PM
(06-09-2019, 09:35 PM)Patrick Wrote: If it's a sexual game then, even if there might be some resulting blockages, it won't be an issue that needs resolving. It's even possible to offer these rich experiences to the Creator in Love. IMHO this helps heal all the negativity associated in the global psyche with these acts. Thus transmuting these as something acceptable and lovable.
I think a big aspect of it is that to work with someone in service, you need to resonate with them in where they are at. So if it is consensual and trust based, there is a greater potential for healing than rejecting the person in where they are at in the moment. A lot of these things are like a distortion that asks to be expressed/released and after the release there is a potential to dwell in the heart with the other person. I think if one of the two person vibrates at the heart level, they will become transparent to the other person and be able to play the game without forcing themselves, without being blocked to sharing the energy and that is what will create a harmony that has the potential to elevate the other person's energy. It's a lot like working with your own distortions, if you are rationalizing them away you have no potential to heal these distortions and the only manner in which you can heal them is through being transparent in empathy with them, to let them have all the place they need so that they can process what they contain. Like always, acceptance is the key toward healing and acceptance is that which denies not.
In these things, a lot of people probably want to feel normal with someone who can enjoy what they enjoy. If what you have to offer is to make them feel abnormal, they will feel alienated and separate and it will do little more than hurt them. If on the opposite you can work with them in acceptance, healing will occur and after some times the need of these games will fall away.