06-07-2019, 05:01 PM
I don’t think it’s quite that simple. The illusion is separation so all actions that take selfishly or give due to perceived need to be taken from/unworthiness drive further into exploration of illusion.
Accepting people will explore illusion and not judging would be the undistorted way but it isn’t the same as saying all distortions are leading to unity/nonillusion.
Once you feel oneness subjugating self or another loses it’s appeal if you are drawn to continue moving in that direction.
The same though can be said about sexual conquests where one is either trying to “get laid” so smooth talking people into doing what you want, maybe letting them think you like them for more than a lay. Or on the flip side sleeping with people easily in hopes they will like you for more than just sex.
It still is taking you out if green ray sexual energy transfer. Either (separation consciousness) taking from other at their expense emotionally or a distortion towards lack of self worth so oppression/non green ray towards self(so still separation consciousness).
All in all these choices are made every day in every interaction not just sex.
I truly don’t think one can get rid of a distortion just by wanting it gone but it is useful to see if something is based in separation/illusion verses unity and make sure you are conscious of why your biases are there and where you wish to go.
For some it might not matter play however long in separation for others we are strongly compelled to seek unity so finding the distortions based in taking from/being taken from, control/being controlled harming/being harmed and healing/at least understanding it is a pretty important step on the path.
Accepting people will explore illusion and not judging would be the undistorted way but it isn’t the same as saying all distortions are leading to unity/nonillusion.
Once you feel oneness subjugating self or another loses it’s appeal if you are drawn to continue moving in that direction.
The same though can be said about sexual conquests where one is either trying to “get laid” so smooth talking people into doing what you want, maybe letting them think you like them for more than a lay. Or on the flip side sleeping with people easily in hopes they will like you for more than just sex.
It still is taking you out if green ray sexual energy transfer. Either (separation consciousness) taking from other at their expense emotionally or a distortion towards lack of self worth so oppression/non green ray towards self(so still separation consciousness).
All in all these choices are made every day in every interaction not just sex.
I truly don’t think one can get rid of a distortion just by wanting it gone but it is useful to see if something is based in separation/illusion verses unity and make sure you are conscious of why your biases are there and where you wish to go.
For some it might not matter play however long in separation for others we are strongly compelled to seek unity so finding the distortions based in taking from/being taken from, control/being controlled harming/being harmed and healing/at least understanding it is a pretty important step on the path.