(05-31-2019, 01:28 PM)flofrog Wrote: Very interesting thing about prison work
Also I think you are all very right on the ancestry thing of course... not denying it at all it is just that it's also interesting to check on the horizontal plane of different incarnations as those may most probably have taken in many various places on earth.
At the same time, if we agree that at some point we choose our incarnation/catalysts and choose parents who themselves have chosen their parents , as I feel we might always come back with approximately same group of people ( which explains how we suddenly feel very close to apparent strangers and become fast friends ) then ancestry is of course important : I can see how I adored my grandfather and can see how familiar he felt despite huge difference of age..
its pretty cool
We may never meet physically, here, friends, but when we pass away we 'll know in times/space and say oh yes of course Blossom, or Kristina to Glow or Diana or Relaxo, or Jade , or Gem, or Quan, and everyone .... yes it's pretty cool
Interesting how you phrased that. Made me think of my husband’s grandfather who felt more like my blood than his or any of my own family, and my mothers 4th husband who in his very brief time with us before his death was close like family to me, we had an instant bond of love, and were more in tune than he was to her or I was to my own family.
There was also a weird experience with a baby in Costco, I like kids but I’m not a huge baby person. This woman pushed a cart by with this baby though and our eyes met and the recognition was weird. For a second I must have see our connections and his life plan because in that fraction of a second I grimaced and wished him luck knowing it was going to be a tricky path.
No outer energies indicated anything would be difficult for him but I knew for a second what he took on, then it was gone from conscious recall, there was a connection like watching your close friend roll by as had been planned in a babies body and exchanging a look. My husband saw it before I even spoke and said “well that was certainly some sort of exchange.
Like a sign post on both my life and that babies, preplanned to pass in Costco and well, whatever the heck that was.

I too favour the horizontal connections.
My mother is all about the past, even having pride for what her ancestors did or who they were. It doesn’t hold my attention for even a second.
My family has never been the blood relatives. Even as a child I would ask for my real mom and I always felt like I was with strangers who had very strange ways. I have found some framiliar/bonded ones I in nonblood though. Unusually no where near my age or race or sociology-economic class. But they feel framiliar like we share something.. Often they pass through on their own path a different direction fairly soon.
Ones you feel quite sure you’ve experienced lives with before.