05-04-2009, 10:57 PM
shukaido: Welcome to the forum! We welcome your participation!
jc2412: Hi and welcome to the forum!
I can definitely relate to your situation. My husband has always been supportive, though not really into the Law of One. However, it wasn't an issue, because he was into other forms of spirituality, without being dogmatic. Both of us had left behind organized religion long ago. So, even though he didn't actually read the books, I was able to share the concepts with him and he was receptive. We often related something he had read out of, say, the Bhagavad Gita with a concept from the Law of One. I see the Law of One as Truth that transcends any religious dogma.
But, I have friends and family members who are fundamentalist Christian and would likely think I was 'satanic' if they knew half of what I believed! I've tried offering little tidbits here and there, but quickly learned that they were not open to it at all. And I have a family member who is an atheist, and he is just as closed.
You never know, though, when a person will become ready for this info. I was once in their mindset, so I can't really judge. I didn't go from being a fundamentalist Christian to a student of the Law of One overnight, though! That's quite a leap! There are certain ideas that are sort of taken for granted...such as reincarnation, and the reality of a soul at all (something that is a given to me, but is disputed by my atheist family member).
People tend to fear that which they don't understand, so it's natural for someone who's been indoctrinated in a rigid, dogmatic religion to be resistant to the Law of One, or even frightened by it.
For this reason, I would suggest proceeding with caution. I would recommend starting with something more basic, to introduce some basic ideas first. An excellent book for just this purpose is Lynn Sparrow's Edgar Cayce and Christianity (or maybe it's Edgar Cayce and Christian Faith? something like that) which details the author's questioning and search for truth...all done prayerfully and within the comfort of her chosen religion. This book might be just the thing to open the door to new thinking for your wife! It's beautifully written and exudes love and reverence for God.
Then, you might mention to her that Carla is a devout Christian (though mystical Christian, rather than conservative Christian, but Christian nonetheless!). This may or may not be reassuring, dependent upon how open-minded your wife is. Unfortunately, I've met some who think everyone except those in their own denomination are condemned to 'hell!' Hopefully, your wife won't think that...if so, then any difference in belief at all might be construed as divisive and fear-producing. Remember that, ultimately, our goal is unity/harmony/peace/love...we don't want to instill fear in anyone.
Try to find common ground. Focus on the cosmic truths espoused by Jesus and the Law of One both...concepts like love and forgiveness.
If she still thinks you've gone off the deep end, perhaps remind her that non-Christians might have thought the same about her when they first learned of her newfound faith! Tell her that you just want to share how much deeper your faith in God has become...offer to pray together...let her know that there is no threat!
Most importantly, reassure her that she needn't EVER leave her chosen religion. The Law of One is NOT a religion and can be integrated into her existing path. If the channel of the Law of One can remain a Christian, then what does that say?
Your wife needs to know that there is NO conflict between her faith and yours. For, in its highest form, Christianity does exemplify the tenets of the Law of One, as do all other religions. It is a valid path! In other words, reassure her that you're not trying to convert her to anything, just share with her your own experiences.
Having said all that, I'd like to also say that it's not necessary that she understand everything you're into, in order to be a spiritual companion and even spiritual teacher. You might have more intellectual understanding of how the UniVerse works, from your reading of the Law of One, but if she can further your lessons in LOVE/forgiveness, then she is the teacher in that respect. We all both teach/learn to one another. It's easy to assume that, if we have more knowledge, then we are teaching the other. But that's not always the case. For example, in the early years of our marriage, I was considered the 'spiritual' one...but later we had an experience in which my husband taught me, not with words but with actions, some very profound lessons, and I realized that we were very evenly matched. Our marriage has been strengthened by our diversity and willingness to learn from each other.
Best wishes to you and your wife! I hope your journey is beautiful and full of love and joy!
(03-25-2009, 02:08 AM)jc2412 Wrote: The question I have is, does anyone here have any experience with being married to someone who isn't ready to wake up yet and can offer advice? Studying the Law of One excites me on so many levels. It is bringing together every spiritual thought that I've had over the past 33 years...
...I have changed quite a bit in a short period of time. Not that who I am has changed, but my core beliefs have shifted from being a typical conservative christian, to an awake wanderer (at least in the broad sense). To her this is coming across as unstable, shifting with the wind, doubting God (as she understands it) and a lack of faith. In reality my doubts have been erased and my faith is stronger then it has ever been.
jc2412: Hi and welcome to the forum!
I can definitely relate to your situation. My husband has always been supportive, though not really into the Law of One. However, it wasn't an issue, because he was into other forms of spirituality, without being dogmatic. Both of us had left behind organized religion long ago. So, even though he didn't actually read the books, I was able to share the concepts with him and he was receptive. We often related something he had read out of, say, the Bhagavad Gita with a concept from the Law of One. I see the Law of One as Truth that transcends any religious dogma.
But, I have friends and family members who are fundamentalist Christian and would likely think I was 'satanic' if they knew half of what I believed! I've tried offering little tidbits here and there, but quickly learned that they were not open to it at all. And I have a family member who is an atheist, and he is just as closed.
You never know, though, when a person will become ready for this info. I was once in their mindset, so I can't really judge. I didn't go from being a fundamentalist Christian to a student of the Law of One overnight, though! That's quite a leap! There are certain ideas that are sort of taken for granted...such as reincarnation, and the reality of a soul at all (something that is a given to me, but is disputed by my atheist family member).
People tend to fear that which they don't understand, so it's natural for someone who's been indoctrinated in a rigid, dogmatic religion to be resistant to the Law of One, or even frightened by it.
For this reason, I would suggest proceeding with caution. I would recommend starting with something more basic, to introduce some basic ideas first. An excellent book for just this purpose is Lynn Sparrow's Edgar Cayce and Christianity (or maybe it's Edgar Cayce and Christian Faith? something like that) which details the author's questioning and search for truth...all done prayerfully and within the comfort of her chosen religion. This book might be just the thing to open the door to new thinking for your wife! It's beautifully written and exudes love and reverence for God.
Then, you might mention to her that Carla is a devout Christian (though mystical Christian, rather than conservative Christian, but Christian nonetheless!). This may or may not be reassuring, dependent upon how open-minded your wife is. Unfortunately, I've met some who think everyone except those in their own denomination are condemned to 'hell!' Hopefully, your wife won't think that...if so, then any difference in belief at all might be construed as divisive and fear-producing. Remember that, ultimately, our goal is unity/harmony/peace/love...we don't want to instill fear in anyone.
Try to find common ground. Focus on the cosmic truths espoused by Jesus and the Law of One both...concepts like love and forgiveness.
If she still thinks you've gone off the deep end, perhaps remind her that non-Christians might have thought the same about her when they first learned of her newfound faith! Tell her that you just want to share how much deeper your faith in God has become...offer to pray together...let her know that there is no threat!
Most importantly, reassure her that she needn't EVER leave her chosen religion. The Law of One is NOT a religion and can be integrated into her existing path. If the channel of the Law of One can remain a Christian, then what does that say?
Your wife needs to know that there is NO conflict between her faith and yours. For, in its highest form, Christianity does exemplify the tenets of the Law of One, as do all other religions. It is a valid path! In other words, reassure her that you're not trying to convert her to anything, just share with her your own experiences.
Having said all that, I'd like to also say that it's not necessary that she understand everything you're into, in order to be a spiritual companion and even spiritual teacher. You might have more intellectual understanding of how the UniVerse works, from your reading of the Law of One, but if she can further your lessons in LOVE/forgiveness, then she is the teacher in that respect. We all both teach/learn to one another. It's easy to assume that, if we have more knowledge, then we are teaching the other. But that's not always the case. For example, in the early years of our marriage, I was considered the 'spiritual' one...but later we had an experience in which my husband taught me, not with words but with actions, some very profound lessons, and I realized that we were very evenly matched. Our marriage has been strengthened by our diversity and willingness to learn from each other.
Best wishes to you and your wife! I hope your journey is beautiful and full of love and joy!