Feminism is about a 5 year old, thought.

[Jade]

I am so sorry, kristina. I have also been raped. I was 18 years old. I'd only been (barely) drunk maybe 2-3 times before. I went to a concert, in fact I was working the door that night and taking money. My friend and coworker was there, and he knew the band. I went to a house nearby for an after party, and on the way there someone noticed one of my headlights was out. I was convinced to sleep over to avoid any potential of getting pulled over while driving home in the middle of the night. I remember chugging from a bottle of scotch. I went to sleep on the floor of a room full of people and I woke up and one of the members of the band had started to have sex with me. I got him to stop and I left as soon as it was daybreak. He proceeded to get my phone number from my coworker and stalk/harass me for over a month afterwards.

And of course, this was my fault for getting drunk, and the good news was that it taught me to never get too drunk around people I didn't know ever again.