Feminism is about a 5 year old, thought.

[Louisabell]

There is always a balance between personal responsibility and activism. No amount of personal responsibility will help you in a society which imprisons you for exercising it. No amount of activism will help people unless they're willing to make change in their personal lives.

Activism is a sign of a free society, excessive activism can take away freedoms. Personal responsibility is essential for a functional society. Excessive personal responsibility can be isolationist as dependence begets co-operation.

Everything is a balance, as in all things, the dose makes the poison, and you cannot take away any aspect. So why do people insist it so? See the flavours, see the dynamic tension of all these things.

There is also a balance between valuing the old and tried method of procreation, as well as valuing the ability to adapt in a rapidly changing society. There is no natural order, we are nature, and a feminist stay-at-home father has been just as successful genetically as a patriarchal lumber-jack father.

If it works for people then it's a legitimate way to live. Why bring personal bias into it?