04-17-2019, 12:02 PM
Well the test is to love them in that state as well, but you are going to feel like no connection as they choose to cut it. Even though, we know its not really. It's just how they chose and we have to respect their choices. Try my family, narcissist to the point they tried to murder me. I'm very lucky to be alive. They pretend like nothing happened, especially my mother. The instigator. I haven't changed my ways either, regardless. So it's become very superficial. I know she can't be trusted as she still tries to hurt me every chance she gets. She doesn't know what to do with me now. She is like she's lost. So, that's where the game ends. That's where she chose to be. I don't. I still show love. That's the ultimate horror scenario, how you become, when you force yourself into separation.
But it's her learning.
It's very hard to be around and find no ear with 3D. They don't want to be your friend as soon as you say something out of the box. But then there are those more open.
Look for them. Otherwise when you align with you you attract your tribe. That's what it comes down to. But the other price is be like the rest. It is a high price. I can almost understand some don't want to pay it. But freedom is even better.
But it's her learning.
It's very hard to be around and find no ear with 3D. They don't want to be your friend as soon as you say something out of the box. But then there are those more open.
Look for them. Otherwise when you align with you you attract your tribe. That's what it comes down to. But the other price is be like the rest. It is a high price. I can almost understand some don't want to pay it. But freedom is even better.