08-11-2018, 12:08 PM
(02-13-2018, 06:46 PM)Louisabell Wrote:(02-13-2018, 06:08 PM)GentleReckoning Wrote: Many people don't consciously improve their ability to relate to others at all, and that's all that I've studied for a decade or so.
People will avoid learning from you because learning new ways of relating cause dissonance in all the rest of their relationships. So if the individual doesn't seek better relationships, then all attempts to improve their ability to relate will be reacted to negatively.
It's not that I disagree with what you're saying. It's just that I don't see where the negative pole resides in any of what you do. Not saying it's not there, I just don't see it.
Societies harmonize around the amount of individuation and health that are safe. If you seek to become healthier, greater, or more individuated or fulfilled than the society is (or just for what you are projected to be) then you become negative to that society as people will avoid you, your manifestations will turn negative and on and on and on.
If you wanted to learn how to fly in 3rd density, then you would become 'negative' to the majority of the earth as that would shatter the beliefs of all causing massive amounts of catalyst for the entire planet. So even though it might be highly 'positive', as it is discordant with others it becomes negative.
The problem is that as you become negative to society, your interactions begin to create massive amounts of light/love (catalyst really) causing massive growth if you know how to balance. This further polarizes you to the negative as you quickly become more healthy emotionally, and spiritually. (eventually reflected physically internally and externally)