If 6th desisty beings are unifying sto w\sts how does the 3d choice effect them

[Minyatur]

i just want my higher self to tell me what to do, it is so difficult not knowing

It offers advices from your unconscious mind more than anything definite to do because it probably perceive not any lesser or better, but only the manifestation of free will.

I think each's interaction with the higher self is unique, so you can definitely connect with it in meditation to seek guidance from a clearer and more balanced perspective.