To clarify, I don't think you necessarily need to be conscious of your choice to polarize but I think realization and dedication to that choice will come before one is harvestable. I don't think someone is just harvested without then being aware of their orientation since third density itself is marked by the Choice. The whole purpose of this density is to become conscious of and make that choice.
I don't mean that everyone will even think of or consider the concepts of 'service to self/other's but rather they will have some experience where they will decidedly choose that they are either going to support people or use them for their own gain. Without this one simply floats in the 'pit of indifference'.
I do agree that someone being told what their choice 'should be' will likely only do harm. Note that Ra never does this.
I don't mean that everyone will even think of or consider the concepts of 'service to self/other's but rather they will have some experience where they will decidedly choose that they are either going to support people or use them for their own gain. Without this one simply floats in the 'pit of indifference'.
I do agree that someone being told what their choice 'should be' will likely only do harm. Note that Ra never does this.