Spazzing out..need insight..HELP!

[Reaper]

I've had this experience- meeting a stranger and feeling an instantaneous, intense connection (they felt it as well). It upended my entire life for a period of a few months, before I decided I wasn't going to drop my family, my mate, my home and everything I had worked for to chase what had become an illogical obsession. In time the feeling simply faded, like getting a drug out of my system, and once it was gone it never came back. It was unfortunately not so easy for the other party; they continued to pursue their feelings for me to the point I had to cease communication with them. Overall I think it was an uncomfortable experience for everyone involved.

I don't really believe in "twin flames", at least not in the context it's usually used in. I think it's far more likely the simple subconscious remembrance of a previous relationship with a person from some other life. As intense as it feels, it can happen many times within a lifetime, and is a precious gift if it can be seen for what it is.

Regardless, you're not evil for having these feelings. It's possible there's parts of the situation you're not seeing clearly, or there could be a genuine connection there, but none of those things make you anything more than a human being who has emotions. My advice would be to try to view it from outside of the emotional context and see if there's anything the strong feelings may have caused you to overlook.