06-15-2016, 04:44 PM
As anagogy said, allowing yourself to be 'where you are' seems what would be most helpful to you.
It's fine to feel as you feel, and as you make small steps toward the positive, one day you'll look back and see you'll have made quite a lot of steps and that positive change did take place with time in greater ways. I think sometimes what is most harmful is to put expectations on yourself, because then you come short on loving yourself if you don't meet them.
Being depressed at times, feeling sad, striving for things, those are all things that can make a soul quite beautiful, they are emotions of Love and you wouldn't feel any of those if you didn't have love within yourself.
It's fine to feel as you feel, and as you make small steps toward the positive, one day you'll look back and see you'll have made quite a lot of steps and that positive change did take place with time in greater ways. I think sometimes what is most harmful is to put expectations on yourself, because then you come short on loving yourself if you don't meet them.
Being depressed at times, feeling sad, striving for things, those are all things that can make a soul quite beautiful, they are emotions of Love and you wouldn't feel any of those if you didn't have love within yourself.