Simple reconciliation.

[Patrick]

...Another concept is this service to self/service to other? What others? Help!...

LoL     Indeed, what others?

Stick around a bit and we will figure it out.

I don't know if you have a background in computer programming, but for me, the concept of other-selves is like multi-threading on a single core CPU.  There is just ONE creator (the CPU) running all these threads, seemingly in parallel, but they are actually running in sequence and just giving the illusion that they run simultaneously in parallel.

They interact with each others as though they where running simultaneously, just like people do.  We interact with each others thinking the "other" is someone "else".  But in reality, it's always you running that other.  You ran that other before your current self or will run that other after your current self.  But since it is all happening in the eternal NOW, you can actually interact with your "before" selves and your "after" selves all at the same time.  Thus giving you the illusion that you are interacting with others.

Hope this makes a little sense to you.

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I want to expand in love. I can feel the heart of Carla pouring through those pages and it is AMAZING. What a wonderful being! I want to get closer to that.
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Yes she was an amazing human being, the legacy she left us is incalculable.