There are plenty of people who need help, and you should continue to go where you feel called, but just be open to learning new things from your "failures". That's really all that it's about.
For example, even if your youtube comment had a perceived "negative" effective on the person making the video, maybe their aggravated response to your loving messages may be a nudge to someone else to take the more loving path. So, being motivated by love, it's likely that your words will have an effect somewhere, even if it's not exactly the direct one that's desired.
And look, I gave you terrible advice, but who knows, maybe someone else will get value from my words at some other point in the future, and hopefully I can learn from it. Onward with love!
For example, even if your youtube comment had a perceived "negative" effective on the person making the video, maybe their aggravated response to your loving messages may be a nudge to someone else to take the more loving path. So, being motivated by love, it's likely that your words will have an effect somewhere, even if it's not exactly the direct one that's desired.
And look, I gave you terrible advice, but who knows, maybe someone else will get value from my words at some other point in the future, and hopefully I can learn from it. Onward with love!