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[Berilac Sandydowns]

I tend to be very careful about who I focus on during times of... um... er.. heightened stimulation.

Years ago when I was going through my divorce, I became friends with a lady who was running a Yahoo chat group. It was a small Spiritual based group. We emailed quit a bit on the side too. A kind of real friendship developed even though she was 2000 miles away.
Well one night I was in a self inflicted state of heightened stimulation :p and was really focusing on her.

So a couple days later in an email she mentions, "I could have swore I felt you in bed with me Tuesday night." !

ohman. haha. I told her exactly what happened and promised to keep my psychic hands to myself.
She told me she didn't mind at all. That it was really nice.

On a related note... Think of all the attractive celebrities that seem to ... deteriorate.
Imagine being bombarded with that kind of energy 24/7.
From strangers that are not always of a loving nature.

For myself, I see sex as a kind of neutral ground.
Relieve and enjoy the physical side and don't make too much of it.
umm. I mean when done a capella.

Hope this helps some.