Shining love in the presence of hatred

[kycahi]

Two ways to go:

1. Work to calm myself down, stop hating perpretator(s) and struggle to begin forgiving.
   
2. Realize that we are One and all are experiencing each other. I am perpretator(s) experiencing that, and I am victims experiencing that, and I am this person learning of the event. Therefore, I don't need to work to forgive the despicable, I just acknowledge that all are serving the One by experiencing all.
   

To a "beginner," the second way is just a concept hard to grasp. After awhile, it comes naturally and peacefully, I promise.