Sex in Today's Life and Spiritual Sex

[Adonai One]

As a married man at the age of 21, who went through several TERMINATED interactions with the opposite sex until I got where I am and found WHO I AM COMPATIBLE WITH; I can only highly attest to the necessity of consistent, faithful, unconditional loving efforts to find a partner and maintain the relationship; Rather than blaming a lack of compliance of women to a non-existent standard of behavior, where women have to have pity sex with every forlorn male walking down the street.

 ...My real fear is that if I continue to be passive (what I see as being passive anyways) I will remain without a partner (is that so tragic though?). 

Can you actually live a meaningful life without ever being in a romantic relationship or would you be missing out on something important?   

I assure you that even in passivity, you will find a more than sufficient partner if you take slow steps to put yourself in a position that you must speak publicly and clearly. Although this can be a difficult step in our first-world, anonymous culture.

That goes without saying: You can absolutely live a meaningful, satisfying life without ever being in a romantic relationship, or in any personal relationship. However, there will be much entropy if you continue to interact with society in the most minimal of ways but never expand upon the intricacies, sufferings, hopes and meanings of these interactions that inevitably lead to romance in some form.

A life without personal romance would be defacto romance with the universe, nature and the self, either absorbent or radiant of choosing. In literature, this is usually termed as hermeticism or monasticism, and is a sufficient but arduous path that requires a constant state of meditation to abstain from the psychological repressions, illnesses and vagaries of a mind that does not interact actively with external catalyst. 

I have considered this path but I had already invested too much in my childhood catalyst to disavow the external catalyst of society in favor of only an indefinite internalized, meditative experience. I had to face the entirety of self and work with the society given to me; The Potentiator of The Body. I assume the same for most here; Perhaps wrongly so.

I don't believe a truly hermetic and monastic person would find Bring4th.org nor The Law of One online. Most of us here likely seek external catalyst to fulfill our service in these lives. To change this would require much satiation in simply visualizing our societal desires rather than living them. This is akin to the curse of a disincarnate existence that does not fulfull its bodily needs through reincarnation, abstaining. I feel there would be horrendous agony in this, such is the so-called "Wheel of Karma."

To not face our societal desires and to live monastically, would create much blockage in the so-called "lower rays" due to the denial of our basic primality and intelligence to expand our consciousness externally. The one who lives most internally is able to see the external as the self. The monastic, hermit who fails this lesson will have dire consequences to pay for in later life in balancing and "polarization."