Sex in Today's Life and Spiritual Sex

[Billy]

My advice is to just be the best you can be according to your potential and desires for your self. If you want to be more attractive physically in a societally accepted sense, then I suggest making that happen in whatever ways you can—work out, do yoga to get fit, take care with your personal appearance, discover your personal style.

I have been considering doing this for a while now, but something keeps stopping me.  I am a skinny male, like really skinny.  I dress okay.  Not bad, not very good, just okay.  I tell myself that the reason I don't put in more effort (i.e. put on weight, go to the gym, dress better) is because doing so would be a blight on my integrity and would not represent my true self but perhaps it is more so to do with laziness.

I have to ask, do the people on this board mold their appearance to be more in tune with what is considered attractive in a societal/biological sense?

I get the feeling that it would help me, not just with women, but with functioning in our society in general.  It seems like such a sell out though.