Sex in Today's Life and Spiritual Sex

[Jade]

Men are biologically inclined to be the more lustful sex. And satisfying a man is not particularly difficult compared to a woman. If someone was lacking green ray energies in the said relationship, I would say it was the GF herself.

So you believe men are more "biologically inclined" to have an overactive red ray? And it's a woman's job to correct this, or she doesn't love him?

I roll my eyes whenever I see some variation of "she was not in the mood". Barring illness or physical exhaustion, that simply means she's not all that into him, and doesn't care about satisfying his biological urges. Doesn't sound like "green ray" to me.

Women are never obligated to have sex with their partners, but a guy should take the hint when he is rejected over petty reasons.

I have to say you may want to contemplate this assertion a bit more. What you are saying is, even if I feel like I have a sufficient orange-ray blockage (say, a big fight that hasn't been resolved) with my husband, that I should just go ahead and have orange-ray sex with him anyway, even if I don't "feel" like it? This ends in a negative energy exchange. Why would I want that?

There is no obligation towards sex for either gender. It's a mutual thing where both partners should be generally on the same wavelength, or close enough to have a meaningful energy exchange. Is a partner really there to satisfy your "biological urges?" What about their biological urges (not wanting to have sex)?

As far as the direction the rest of the thread has taken, I would recommend one of Ra's balancing exercises; to recognize every female as male, and every male as female. Spiritual sex is the merging of two balanced souls. You may feel like you've only known severely imbalanced souls, but the sexist gender dichotomy is not nearly as prevalent as you'd like to believe. That link you posted contains some extremely volatile opinions and language, if you really feel that way, earth_spirit, I am sorry that you have been hurt so.

For what it's worth, I think at this time we have a lot of "female souls" incarnate as males and a lot of male souls incarnate as females, in an attempt to overcorrect the imbalances of the past. I think this has caused a lot of confusion for those incarnate in these weird times. I think it's great if we can all be patient with each other, even the jerks who do a poor job representing their gender. I think everyone is trying and growing to get better. The process is slow for some people, but others can wake up in an instant to their true nature. No need to dwell in the darkness of the times, rejoice each time you see someone with their eyes open, and remember we all blink and sleep.