02-13-2015, 01:08 PM
(02-13-2015, 10:39 AM)Bring4th_GLB Wrote:(02-12-2015, 12:28 PM)Diana Wrote: Parsons, while your comment is honest, can't you try and work out an understanding before pointing the finger?
I didn't see Parson's post as finger pointing. He conveyed his experience, saying that he had a similar reading/feeling of Monica's thoughts. It was gentle on Parson's part.
Diana, you did precisely the same by saying that my post felt "harsh". Which is fine; it is a reflection of your interpretation of my thoughts. In return I do not reply and ask you to stop finger pointing, ya know?
Instead I reflected on my thoughts and determined that I could have worded that better, but I still felt there was a legitimate point to make.
Fair enough. You are correct—it was my interpretation in both cases. I did feel that in both instances the comments were unwarranted, but hey, that's what discussions are for. To discuss, and open up ideas, and enlightenen subjects.

And, pointing the finger can be done in very subtle ways, even unconscious ways. I do strive to be honest with myself and others. I also strive to allow free will. Sometimes this is a very delicate balance.