The Law of Responsibility

[Adonai One]

As a general guideline, if you can't find honor, pleasure in your service, I don't imagine you having much fun attempting to fulfill the honors, pleasures of others nor having any emotional reason too. It is not just simply the first step but the absolute prerequisite. You have to feel your responsibility for others as you feel responsible for yourself, the emotional tie being complete, the honor, pleasure felt being mutual in either service to another or towards yourself (while respecting others of course.)

Yes, you must take complete responsibility for yourself for this to work. The relationships should be symbiotic if any type of service of responsibility is to sustain.