What is a 'disciplined personality'?

[ricdaw]

I believe discipline of the personality ultimately means the ability to craft and shape the personality at will.

Or perhaps, the ability to know in the moment the right thought, word or deed that accepts fully self, other-self and which honors/advances your chosen polarity/purpose.

It is the ability to have an instantaneous understanding of your own filters/biases; the apparent perfections and flaws of the other-self; and the needs of the moment.

Jean Luc Picard!

I aspire to this.