(07-30-2014, 12:27 AM)Learner Wrote: To me they are the ways to experience, express, and accept universal love. Since love is so important to this density, I think the reason we had such low harvest as far is because love is also the most distorted understanding we have.
To me this is distortion #1: We consider it acceptable to use love (towards someone) as a justification for hate (towards someone else).
If love can lead to hate, then it is not the true/universal love of which we need to learn the ways.
Distortion #2: We were made to believe that love requires sacrifice. Sacrifice is a choice, it's never necessary. Love needs not lead to hurt or pain for anyone.
To me, love and hate are not opposites. I came to believe that the opposite of love is indifference, and the opposite of hate is desire.
One implication is that we love anyone that we hate, otherwise we wouldn't a darn.
Well, yes, Wolf, but the suffering is experience and that is the 3D life. I bring this up just so those around here don't feel guilt because they suffer. We all have been there and still are to some degree cuz Wanderers in 3Dland could easily succomb to arrogance.
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