06-19-2010, 11:45 AM
(06-18-2010, 09:03 AM)Ali Quadir Wrote:(06-18-2010, 06:53 AM)MtDoraGuy Wrote: Sometimes, I find myself getting all caught up in the drama I create, that I entirely forget to 'forgive myself' for my seeming lack and limitations.
We all do that... I certainly know that feeling.. However, do think carefully about the message you're sending... How would you feel if I told you that I forgive you for being a total douche? You'd be insulted and rightly so. Because really you're not and I just said you are I just disguised it as a positive compliment. But wearing a disguise does not change a thing.
IMO, forgiving ones self is really no different from forgiving others. Ego is dropped and the realization of the truth is brought into the situation and the veil is dropped, thus revealing everyone as 'one' and unconditional love is returned to the moment.
I really don't understand how you can say 'forgiving someone for being a total douche' is disguised as a positive comliment. Your logic befuddles me.
