06-10-2014, 08:23 PM
Adjusting perspective as a regular habit will help the learning. I help others do this with hypnosis.
A person may seem like a jerk with your first impression, and you could continue on with this belief, letting emotional response bring your judgements.
You could find out more about this person, learning that they lost their parents, lost their girlfriend, lost their job, maybe even all at once, turning the individual sour. When you learn "about" the person you suddenly understand their tinted perspective, and you no longer judge because you now understand.
You can also find a person that acts out on a daily basis, and find that they have a horrible home life, which also causes you to be more accepting of their current traits. You understand what catalyst they face that causes their mental/emotional distortion.
It is not much different than thinking of energy systems. You can learn enough to gauge a person's personality expressions/reactions by the condition of their energy system.
There are a limited amount of patterns as far as personality traits and energy imbalances. With enough experience you can just look at someone and "know", allowing you to not hastily judge.
Dolores Cannon has her own system of understanding certain circumstances, which is based on the complaints of the person. Depending on where they experience pain, she finds that the specific area of pain always links to specific areas of their life. She can read the person by the symptoms. Very similar.
There are limited patterns of expression, and when all expressions are learned they can be called "understood" or "known". With knowledge there is no need for judgement, and not much need for emotional response or reaction.
In this way it becomes a passive response from knowing rather than a passive response by ignoring.
A person may seem like a jerk with your first impression, and you could continue on with this belief, letting emotional response bring your judgements.
You could find out more about this person, learning that they lost their parents, lost their girlfriend, lost their job, maybe even all at once, turning the individual sour. When you learn "about" the person you suddenly understand their tinted perspective, and you no longer judge because you now understand.
You can also find a person that acts out on a daily basis, and find that they have a horrible home life, which also causes you to be more accepting of their current traits. You understand what catalyst they face that causes their mental/emotional distortion.
It is not much different than thinking of energy systems. You can learn enough to gauge a person's personality expressions/reactions by the condition of their energy system.
There are a limited amount of patterns as far as personality traits and energy imbalances. With enough experience you can just look at someone and "know", allowing you to not hastily judge.
Dolores Cannon has her own system of understanding certain circumstances, which is based on the complaints of the person. Depending on where they experience pain, she finds that the specific area of pain always links to specific areas of their life. She can read the person by the symptoms. Very similar.
There are limited patterns of expression, and when all expressions are learned they can be called "understood" or "known". With knowledge there is no need for judgement, and not much need for emotional response or reaction.
In this way it becomes a passive response from knowing rather than a passive response by ignoring.