05-27-2014, 12:37 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-27-2014, 12:48 AM by Adonai One.)
Accepting a catalyst to me is having faith all desires will be met in regards to the respective catalyst. Neglecting a catalyst is refusing to acknowledge desires in the face of a catalyst. Rejecting a catalyst is having a faith in ones desires so far as to reject all other possibilities in regards to the catalyst provided.
Catalyst: A person wishes to be my friend.
Acceptance: I accept the person's affection in my life without expectation from the person.
Neglect: I accept them as a casual friend without any care for what the person does. I will discard the person whenever it suits me. Why does this person want to waste my time? I want to spend more time with my husband who buys me things.
Rejection: The person will aid me for the rest of life, whatever it takes. Else they have failed me and I will ensure they will repay their injustice. A friendship is forever.
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Catalyst: Somebody wants me to give them money.
Acceptance: I cannot give them money right now. I will help them in the best way I can.
Neglect: This person is a parasite. He does not deserve my money.
Rejection: Come with me. I will teach you how to be productive, you just have to do certain things for me. If you do not obey, I will cast you back to the streets. Things have to be earned.
Control is rejection of what cannot be provided to the self.
Catalyst: A person wishes to be my friend.
Acceptance: I accept the person's affection in my life without expectation from the person.
Neglect: I accept them as a casual friend without any care for what the person does. I will discard the person whenever it suits me. Why does this person want to waste my time? I want to spend more time with my husband who buys me things.
Rejection: The person will aid me for the rest of life, whatever it takes. Else they have failed me and I will ensure they will repay their injustice. A friendship is forever.
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Catalyst: Somebody wants me to give them money.
Acceptance: I cannot give them money right now. I will help them in the best way I can.
Neglect: This person is a parasite. He does not deserve my money.
Rejection: Come with me. I will teach you how to be productive, you just have to do certain things for me. If you do not obey, I will cast you back to the streets. Things have to be earned.
Control is rejection of what cannot be provided to the self.