04-02-2014, 06:47 PM
Love is not about letting your child run out into an open busy road and letting them experience first hand the pleasure of a one on one contact with a vehicle coming at 80 mph because you have "Unconditional acceptance of their choice as an infinite being". Similarly, if a friend locks themselves in a room with a "woe is me" attitude, starving themselves due to perceiving there not to be any food, yet you know there is some available right across the road, you're not going to let them sit there, but rather break down that door and jar them awake telling them to get outside and look at what is available for them. Yes, it may be a strong approach however would you rather let them die whilst singing kumbaya outside sending 'high vibrations'?
These are ridiculous examples/analogies (partly because I'm bloody tired and can't think of any better ones), however it conveys the point well. That being, It isn't necessarily about letting one indulge in their self destructive behaviour, because in doing so you're perpetuating the state they wish to relieve themselves from. The goal is to empower the individual and recognise their sovereignty, not to 'confirm' their idea that they are some pain riddled creature doomed to millennia of torture (Where's the 'Love' in that?). How you go about that may entail a 'strong' approach, however the change ultimately outweights the transitional pain. There are members that have had their their intentions misinterpreted by others who have not integrated that aspect of Self (In relation to compassion/wisdom), which we're seeing projected here.
In this case ones Soul would have to be pretty high on the good stuff to seemingly indulge in 1000's of lifetimes of torture (I'm kidding).
There is one perspective that all is ultimately well, harmonious, correct, and this is true, however the pathway in which that point of reconciliation is reached is only through the process of exploration through various methods, the catalyst of which may be personal development and maturity over years or a kick up the backside from an individual on a forum. Regardless of the catalyst they are both valid obviously, however the choice of experience is up to the individual. The incarnate themes are set, however how you go about exploring them is entirely upto the individual through the various probability vortices. You could go about it as painfree as possible, or not, it's entirely upto the individual in question (The 'Soul' has no 'Bias' in that sense given it is a Human attribute).
These are ridiculous examples/analogies (partly because I'm bloody tired and can't think of any better ones), however it conveys the point well. That being, It isn't necessarily about letting one indulge in their self destructive behaviour, because in doing so you're perpetuating the state they wish to relieve themselves from. The goal is to empower the individual and recognise their sovereignty, not to 'confirm' their idea that they are some pain riddled creature doomed to millennia of torture (Where's the 'Love' in that?). How you go about that may entail a 'strong' approach, however the change ultimately outweights the transitional pain. There are members that have had their their intentions misinterpreted by others who have not integrated that aspect of Self (In relation to compassion/wisdom), which we're seeing projected here.
In this case ones Soul would have to be pretty high on the good stuff to seemingly indulge in 1000's of lifetimes of torture (I'm kidding).
There is one perspective that all is ultimately well, harmonious, correct, and this is true, however the pathway in which that point of reconciliation is reached is only through the process of exploration through various methods, the catalyst of which may be personal development and maturity over years or a kick up the backside from an individual on a forum. Regardless of the catalyst they are both valid obviously, however the choice of experience is up to the individual. The incarnate themes are set, however how you go about exploring them is entirely upto the individual through the various probability vortices. You could go about it as painfree as possible, or not, it's entirely upto the individual in question (The 'Soul' has no 'Bias' in that sense given it is a Human attribute).
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