03-31-2014, 04:58 PM
Hey Michael, I agree with Melissa in that communication can helpful. Actually I think that loving, honest communication is one of your most important tools for helping to bring resolution/harmony to the situation.
His universe is not your own, and vice versa. Communication bridges that gap. It opens your experience to him, and his experience to you. Helps to clear misunderstanding. Helps to generate empathy. Helps to show each party ways they adjustments can be made for increased harmony.
Potentially and ideally, that is. It takes two for that level of work to be successfully completed. You could be honest, clear, and compassionate as possible, and it fall on deaf ears, or be misunderstood, or be rejected. But I think that the effort needs to be made in most situations, though each situation is unique.
And if compassionate communication fails to achieve the desired objective, and if your resistance to the situation persists, then, a form of tough love may be in order.
I think that "tough love", or drawing a boundary in order to protect and preserve the self, is not a disservice, or a "wrong", or out of alignment with the principles of the positive polarity. I think that, in fact, it can be an act of wisdom, so long as the energies of the heart chakra remain open.
Just some food for thought. Please disregard if unhelpful. Love & Light to you.
His universe is not your own, and vice versa. Communication bridges that gap. It opens your experience to him, and his experience to you. Helps to clear misunderstanding. Helps to generate empathy. Helps to show each party ways they adjustments can be made for increased harmony.
Potentially and ideally, that is. It takes two for that level of work to be successfully completed. You could be honest, clear, and compassionate as possible, and it fall on deaf ears, or be misunderstood, or be rejected. But I think that the effort needs to be made in most situations, though each situation is unique.
And if compassionate communication fails to achieve the desired objective, and if your resistance to the situation persists, then, a form of tough love may be in order.
I think that "tough love", or drawing a boundary in order to protect and preserve the self, is not a disservice, or a "wrong", or out of alignment with the principles of the positive polarity. I think that, in fact, it can be an act of wisdom, so long as the energies of the heart chakra remain open.
Just some food for thought. Please disregard if unhelpful. Love & Light to you.
Explanation by the tongue makes most things clear, but love unexplained is clearer. - Rumi
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