Quietude & Asylum...

[Poet]

Correct me if I'm wrong but the main question seems to be here how to deal with negative forces. I found this passage of the LOO extremly useful in this regard:

25.5 Questioner: You spoke of an Orion Confederation and a battle being fought between the Confederation and the Orion Confederation. Is it possible to convey any concept of how this battle is fought?

Ra: I am Ra. Picture, if you will, your mind. Picture it then in total unity with all other minds of your society. You are then single-minded and that which is a weak electrical charge in your physical illusion is now an enormously powerful machine whereby thoughts may be projected as things. In this endeavor the Orion group charges or attacks the Confederation arms with light. The result, a stand-off, as you would call it, both energies being somewhat depleted by this and needing to regroup; the negative depleted through failure to manipulate, the positive depleted through failure to accept that which is given.

25.6 Questioner: Could you amplify the meaning of what you said by “failure to accept that which is given?”

Ra: I am Ra. At the level of time/space at which this takes place in the form of what you may call thought-war, the most accepting and loving energy would be to so love those who wished to manipulate that those entities were surrounded, engulfed, and transformed by positive energies. This, however, being a battle of equals, the Confederation is aware that it cannot, on equal footing, allow itself to be manipulated in order to remain purely positive, for then though pure it would not be of any consequence, having been placed by the so-called powers of darkness under the heel, as you may say.

It is thus that those who deal with this thought-war must be defensive rather than accepting in order to preserve their usefulness in service to others. Thusly, they cannot accept fully what the Orion Confederation wishes to give, that being enslavement. Thusly, some polarity is lost due to this friction and both sides, if you will, must then regroup. It has not been fruitful for either side. The only consequence which has been helpful is a balancing of the energies available to this planet so that these energies have less necessity to be balanced in this space/time, thus lessening the chances of planetary annihilation.

So if one wants to remain in being in servive of others, one cannot fully accept the free will of negative forces which want to enslave the positive side. Both sides depolarize in this process. I think this is quite a common situation: If a criminal wants to harm you, you will defend yourself to save your physical body - you cannot fully accept and embrace his will if you want to live. Balancing can bring an improvement of the situation, but cannot finally solve it.

I've found that so long as I view all other selves....ALL other selves...as being worthy of my unconditional love, whether they accept it or not (...).

So based on this above, I would say every otherself is worthy, but it is not possible to fully love negative forces in every possible situation because this would mean acceptance of their intention of enslavement and the loss of one's ability to be of service.