02-26-2014, 02:05 PM
What Jacrob did was find out what worked for her. If it worked fine for now, that's a fantastic thing. Imagine living with paranoia and anxiety and whatnot and being unable to do anything about it. The inability to find some resolution might amplify whatever aversive experience she is going through. She made a good choice based on her experience and that's that, and, being a spiritually oriented person she's going to figure out what this catalyst is about and do what she needs to do.
Long term experience in distressing situation can lead to development of secondary conditions - like depression and anxiety. Some choose to take care of these secondary conditions so they could dig deeper to the core issues. It's really what works for that individual, not social commentary (with what we 'should do') or what doctors say. But most experts will dictate what needs be done, doctors and anti-doctors alike lol.
Long term experience in distressing situation can lead to development of secondary conditions - like depression and anxiety. Some choose to take care of these secondary conditions so they could dig deeper to the core issues. It's really what works for that individual, not social commentary (with what we 'should do') or what doctors say. But most experts will dictate what needs be done, doctors and anti-doctors alike lol.