Hi Marc.
Thanks for the update. Im not sure of the etiquette of liking a post where u reveal u have seperated from your wife and are homeless. I think youve gone about the situation in a very mature manner. It seems a real shame to me that marriage was the only avenue available for you two to pursue a healthy committed sexual relationship. It complicates what would otherwise be a normal growing or drifting apart with legal, financial, societal and religious baggage. I think for some time youve expressed your frustration with the growing divide between your wifes beleifs and your own on these forums. Obviously very few would outright suggest seperation but we ourselves know where it is we see our relationships heading and we just need to orchestrate the right sequence of events in order to see that we do right by the people involved. its difficult to make life changes without rocking the boat a little first and i imagine thats what your holiday in part achieved. U were willing to make changes before the trip u just needed the right leverage to justify your actions. I did something similar when I came out so I may be projecting. Forgive me if I am. I think you're young (happy bday btw) and u have your whole life ahead of you to make it exactly what you want of it. Stay positive and i wish u all the best in this new chapter of your life.
Thanks for the update. Im not sure of the etiquette of liking a post where u reveal u have seperated from your wife and are homeless. I think youve gone about the situation in a very mature manner. It seems a real shame to me that marriage was the only avenue available for you two to pursue a healthy committed sexual relationship. It complicates what would otherwise be a normal growing or drifting apart with legal, financial, societal and religious baggage. I think for some time youve expressed your frustration with the growing divide between your wifes beleifs and your own on these forums. Obviously very few would outright suggest seperation but we ourselves know where it is we see our relationships heading and we just need to orchestrate the right sequence of events in order to see that we do right by the people involved. its difficult to make life changes without rocking the boat a little first and i imagine thats what your holiday in part achieved. U were willing to make changes before the trip u just needed the right leverage to justify your actions. I did something similar when I came out so I may be projecting. Forgive me if I am. I think you're young (happy bday btw) and u have your whole life ahead of you to make it exactly what you want of it. Stay positive and i wish u all the best in this new chapter of your life.
![[+]](https://www.bring4th.org/forums/images/collapse_collapsed.png)