does the word 'desire' have negative overtones for you?

[Fang]

Yeah balancing results from first identifying, then acknowledging, then exploring, then eventually accepting catalyst, once the catalyst is accepted, balancing begins.

Some would say acceptance is a prerequisite of and integral to the action of love, which is where the balanced being acts from.

"To the truly balanced entity no situation would be emotionally charged" kinda denotes to me a state of harmony rather than indifference as the balanced entity would still act to serve rather than just wallow in nihilism.