I too, was a Christian once. I have since moved on, however most of my extended family does not know this. In my opinion there really is no need for them to know, especially my aging grandmother. You see, I remember once as a little boy learning that one of my cousins was an atheist, and coming from my Christian view point it made me very, very sad to imagine him going to hell some day. So I just don't mention it. If I have to, I will white lie about it. 
Yes, it is unfortunate that because of the fear religions have woven we cannot be open about our beliefs at all times. But this is acceptable, I feel, when thinking about the alternative.
If you feel a sincere need to discuss these things with your family and friends, then you must obviously do what you feel you need to. But I would consider it carefully. Who will be aided by this, who will not be aided? Is the aid gained more than the aid not gained? In other words, is your desire to announce your new understandings of God more important than the emotional trauma others will feel at hearing it? I leave this to your discernment.
Lastly, after having said all of this, rest assured that whatever results come of your choice, whichever way you choose, is exactly what needs to happen. So if you are indecisive at the end of your meditations, do not fret overly long.
love and light to you my friend!
Yes, it is unfortunate that because of the fear religions have woven we cannot be open about our beliefs at all times. But this is acceptable, I feel, when thinking about the alternative.If you feel a sincere need to discuss these things with your family and friends, then you must obviously do what you feel you need to. But I would consider it carefully. Who will be aided by this, who will not be aided? Is the aid gained more than the aid not gained? In other words, is your desire to announce your new understandings of God more important than the emotional trauma others will feel at hearing it? I leave this to your discernment.
Lastly, after having said all of this, rest assured that whatever results come of your choice, whichever way you choose, is exactly what needs to happen. So if you are indecisive at the end of your meditations, do not fret overly long.
love and light to you my friend!