04-12-2010, 01:41 PM
May I ask why you feel the need to proclaim this change in thinking to your family and friends? You said that you were sick of pretending to be something that you are not, which I understand, but who said you have to pretend? My suggestion to you is to be yourself, and let things fall as they may. I see no need to proclaim these changes, as it seems like it will just upset people. If you act as yourself, then your family will gradually see your true self and no proclamation is needed.
Of course, this is just my own opinion. I am a non confrontational person, so take that into account.
Of course, this is just my own opinion. I am a non confrontational person, so take that into account.