I have a confession to make.

[Bring4th_Austin]

You can see my perception here isn't necessarily in tune with the perceptions of those expressing angst.

I didn't get that. You perception "here" - where? And who is expressing angst?

Within this thread, regarding the topic those who feel angst because they must keep secret their identification as a wanderer.

I do not view questioning as ostracizing though I understand that some might. This is a consistent theme here.

Some are genuinely curious and are really asking the questions because of an interest. And some are "asking the questions" because of an underlying judgement that they want to discuss, but are not really interested. The latter is indeed a catalyst, but not a positively oriented one, towards service to others. This is a consistent theme here too.

This is the other side of the coin I was referring to, as someone may refrain from asking questions they wish to ask because they are being perceived as "not positively oriented." When questioning is interpreted as being a negative catalyst, it creates the same hesitation to share.