are you judgemental towards sts people?

[Melissa]

I've been highly judgmental towards my mother lately, at one point I did see her as 'evil' because of the way she acts sometimes. However, I see how I've been in complete denial about certain aspects of my (shadow) self so it's a good learning experience, but quite -quite challenging at times. It's hard to balance acceptance and stand up to her in a loving manner.