Your Thoughts Do Not Create Your Reality, Stupid.

[anagogy]

Does this happen in mid-sixth density when higher self is achieved, or in seventh density? I don't really want to identify with separation, I want to achieve unity. I hope to taste a bit of unity in 4th density.

The individuated self doesn't go completely away until 7th density.

But by sixth density, there is not separation between one portion of a social memory complex and another portion, except perhaps in relation to the past self frame of reference, and in the "tendrils" or ethereal vessels they manifest for their consciousness.

As Ra says:

17.13 Questioner: When I am communicating with you as Ra, are you at times [an] individualized entity or am I speaking to the entire complex?

Ra: I am Ra. You speak with Ra. There is no separation. You would call it a social memory complex thus indicating many-ness. To our understanding, you are speaking to an individualized portion of consciousness.

Ra is saying here that while, from our perception, a social memory complex is a group of entities sharing their thoughts, feelings, and memories with one another, from their sixth density perception the social memory complex is a singular individualized entity.

So your Higher Self is as much the whole social memory complex, as it is an individualized mind/body/spirit.

You don't have to wait for a higher density to taste unity though. You are, at all times, already One with all that is. You are All That Is looking through a kind of "lens" which equals the reality you see about you.

95.25 Questioner: I have often wondered about the action of random and programmed catalyst with respect to the entity with the very strong positive or negative polarization. Would one or either be free to a great extent from random catalyst occurring such as great natural catastrophes or warfare or something like that [that] generates a lot of random catalyst in the physical vicinity of a highly polarized entity? Does this great cat, then, have effect on such random catalyst upon the right-hand path?

Ra: I am Ra. In two circumstances this is so. Firstly, if there has been the pre-incarnative choice that, for instance, one shall not take life in the service of the cultural group, events shall fall in a protective manner. Secondly, if any entity is able to dwell completely in unity the only harm that may occur to it is the changing of the outward physical, yellow-ray vehicle into the more light-filled mind/body/spirit complex’s vehicle by the process of death. All other suffering and pain is as nothing to one such as this.

We may note that this perfect configuration of the mind, body, and spirit complexes, while within the third-density vehicle, is extraordinarily rare.

Just as any being may heal if they have the consciousness of spirit, which is 3rd density on up, a being of our density may dwell in conscious unity even though it is rare, they just have more illusory material to see through.

I think a good start would be reading The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle. I've found it to be a good primer for beginning to experience things as they are, beyond the abstraction of the mind/ego.