In your situation I would say get angry, bring that anger back and blow it out of proportion. Why would he do this? was he being stupid or was he trying to do something bad to you? only when you envelop yourself with this do you see the truth of what it really is. Ahh but can you see it? All is well. What was once anger is now acceptance and appreciation and the joy that your friend was so nice enough to mirror to you a side of yourself. For within all entities exists completeness. For as you have gotten the weed into your system and had already taken it know that within your friend lies the mirror image of yourself, given to you catalyst. Know that you are here the infinite one, you are experiencing yourself.
It may be unwise to think right away that moving away from the emotions and from the negative situation will do you well. It is but the fruits offered by the negative catalysts which strengthen and intensify the positive radiant choice of a being. Continually un-distorting and seeking shall transform the one experiencing catalyst. Gradually shall one be balanced and not swayed. It will not though happen through repression and the blocking out.
Quote:Questioner: What is the difference in terms of energy center activation between a person who represses emotional responses to emotionally charged situations and the person who is balanced and, therefore, truly unswayed by emotionally charged situations?
Ra: I am Ra. This query contains an incorrect assumption. To the truly balanced entity no situation would be emotionally charged. With this understood, we may say the following: The repression of emotions depolarizes the entity in so far as it then chooses not to use the catalytic action of the space/time present in a spontaneous manner, thus dimming the energy centers. There is, however, some polarization towards positive if the cause of this repression is consideration for other-selves. The entity which has worked long enough with the catalyst to be able to feel the catalyst but not find it necessary to express reactions is not yet balanced but suffers no depolarization due to the transparency of its experiential continuum. Thus the gradual increase in the ability to observe one’s reaction and to know the self will bring the self ever closer to a true balance. Patience is requested and suggested, for the catalyst is intense upon your plane and its use must be appreciated over a period of consistent learn/teaching.
Quote:Questioner: How can a person know when he is unswayed by an emotionally charged situation or if he is repressing the flow of emotions, or if he is in balance and truly unswayed?
Ra: I am Ra. We have spoken to this point. Therefore, we shall briefly iterate that to the balanced entity no situation has an emotional charge but is simply a situation like any other in which the entity may or may not observe an opportunity to be of service. The closer an entity comes to this attitude the closer an entity is to balance. You may note that it is not our recommendation that reactions to catalyst be repressed or suppressed unless such reactions would be a stumbling block not consonant with the Law of One to an other-self. It is far, far better to allow the experience to express itself in order that the entity may then make fuller use of this catalyst.
It may be unwise to think right away that moving away from the emotions and from the negative situation will do you well. It is but the fruits offered by the negative catalysts which strengthen and intensify the positive radiant choice of a being. Continually un-distorting and seeking shall transform the one experiencing catalyst. Gradually shall one be balanced and not swayed. It will not though happen through repression and the blocking out.