07-15-2013, 12:45 AM
(07-14-2013, 11:23 PM)Adonai One Wrote: It was rather meaningless to me from day-one:
Why should relationships be exclusive between two people? What really defines romanticism? A concept of property over another? A sense of intimacy? Why can't we be intimate with all people? And why would we need to own others and limit them? Why do we make relationships mutually exclusive?
The answer to the latter is 2nd-density primality. Some can't see through this, others can.
So today I am coming out of the closet: I am willing to fall in love with anyone and anything. A relationship with a sense of property and limitation is not my calling. I will never limit a partner to only being in love with me for they should be able to love all the people they wish to be with, for any fear of this is a fear of being unloved. If they begin to ignore me, that was their will and freewill to me is paramount.
This may leave me without a "romantic partner" for the rest of my life but so be it, for I know true unity between all things will have its time. And my sense of micro-cosmic unity can exist in any moment without a human concept of a lover.
So in human political terms, I am a polygamous bisexual. Perhaps pansexual? I have no idea. I don't care. All I know is that I want to love all things without limitation. And it seems this concept pervades through the higher-densities.
i think you'll find that depending on the people you surround yourself with, the idea of what is normal for a relationship changes. I know lots of people in the LGBTQ who have very interesting and varied veiwpoints on relationships and they are not always confined between two people. Same goes for heterosexual relationships and everything in between and beyond. I very much doubt that your viewpoint will leave you without a romantic partner for the rest of your life, but in order to find a partner that shares similar feelings you may have to broaden your interactions with groups beyond those you normally interact with. Luckily there is the internet.
That being said there is also the notion that sexuality will in fact refer to something sexual occurring. So if you go around telling people you're bisexual or pansexual dont be surprised if you start receiving propositions for sexual acts, especially on the internet.
In addition, there may not be any need to label or confine yourself to a category at all and sexuality for you might not even entail physical sexual acts but the relationship side of the equation. The labels can be useful in interacting with other people but they have their own problems as well.