12-07-2012, 11:24 AM
If you are in Thailand, the proper procedure for a long term romance, far as I am aware of, is to buy a long term mate. In such countries it is the appropriate norm in many situations. Not in all ofcourse but in most. Most countries of such nature have a deep seated female centric culture where the man is simply expected to pony up the dough.
If romance is not your thing specifically, I recommend you simply purchase a companion for the duration of your stay. Explain up front that you want and that you'll pay X amount per month regardless of what she does or does not do in order to pay for what she needs to have a good life by local standards, in exchange she will be your wife/girlfriend for the duration and when you leave receive a stipend from you and such.
No different than in the victorian era going to a poor shoeshine girl and say "you would look much better in a pretty dress with my arms around you in a romantic embrace."
Thailand is, based on my rumor sense of that area, even more money oriented than the worst Western culture shopping nutterbutters but still much much more balanced about it. Kind of like they expect the man to pay but dont have a problem for being purchased as wifes but have some degree of trouble with prostitution. It is kind of a strange culture in that way. Then again, i consider all human mating standards to be super strange so what do i know.
Anyway. I recommend buying a wife for the duration of your stay there if you are not up for romancing someone the conventional way, as opposed to short term flings. If you make sure she understands that you are offering to pay for everything in terms of education /normal living / food due to the difference in financial systems of countries and dont expect a prostitute but rather someone who is nice and female and you enjoy hanging around with, you will find millions of women there who would jump at the opportunity. Mostly because there are millions of SE-Asian women who live by picking food from landfills. The thing with countries like these are that the culture truly is so alien to many in the west that they will not understand if you explain to them(westerners) that buying a wife there is actually not frowned upon the same as it is here. You buy the function of the person, not the content of their heart, you may have a wife but unles you are a good man they will only serve you, not love you. That is the implicit situation in such countries. It is, in a way, similar to old viking societies and bridal monies and such, but in their culture you pay the woman directly for the bridal value and not the family. It is kind of like the middle eastern culture in many ways, expect you pay the person directly, and not the family. It is a very different and sometimes alien culture, at least, in terms of those activities...
It may be hard to say but you'll have a companion as loyal to you as a random B4thite would be if they were "harvested" to a 6th density STO memory complex in exchange for the courtesy of being themselves around said social memory complex.
Good luck with Thailand, I've opted to stay out of that area for the time being, I think the whole concept of mixing money with love scares me
If romance is not your thing specifically, I recommend you simply purchase a companion for the duration of your stay. Explain up front that you want and that you'll pay X amount per month regardless of what she does or does not do in order to pay for what she needs to have a good life by local standards, in exchange she will be your wife/girlfriend for the duration and when you leave receive a stipend from you and such.
No different than in the victorian era going to a poor shoeshine girl and say "you would look much better in a pretty dress with my arms around you in a romantic embrace."
Thailand is, based on my rumor sense of that area, even more money oriented than the worst Western culture shopping nutterbutters but still much much more balanced about it. Kind of like they expect the man to pay but dont have a problem for being purchased as wifes but have some degree of trouble with prostitution. It is kind of a strange culture in that way. Then again, i consider all human mating standards to be super strange so what do i know.
Anyway. I recommend buying a wife for the duration of your stay there if you are not up for romancing someone the conventional way, as opposed to short term flings. If you make sure she understands that you are offering to pay for everything in terms of education /normal living / food due to the difference in financial systems of countries and dont expect a prostitute but rather someone who is nice and female and you enjoy hanging around with, you will find millions of women there who would jump at the opportunity. Mostly because there are millions of SE-Asian women who live by picking food from landfills. The thing with countries like these are that the culture truly is so alien to many in the west that they will not understand if you explain to them(westerners) that buying a wife there is actually not frowned upon the same as it is here. You buy the function of the person, not the content of their heart, you may have a wife but unles you are a good man they will only serve you, not love you. That is the implicit situation in such countries. It is, in a way, similar to old viking societies and bridal monies and such, but in their culture you pay the woman directly for the bridal value and not the family. It is kind of like the middle eastern culture in many ways, expect you pay the person directly, and not the family. It is a very different and sometimes alien culture, at least, in terms of those activities...
It may be hard to say but you'll have a companion as loyal to you as a random B4thite would be if they were "harvested" to a 6th density STO memory complex in exchange for the courtesy of being themselves around said social memory complex.
Good luck with Thailand, I've opted to stay out of that area for the time being, I think the whole concept of mixing money with love scares me
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