Writing how we want our life to be

[AnthroHeart]

I'm going to start doing an exercise where I write out exactly how I'd like my life to be.

I want to start with a romantic relationship.

I know you write in present tense, as if it's already happened.


But what if you're flexible? What if you can have something one of several ways?


If you're writing as if it's already happened, wouldn't you have to define exactly how it is?


How can something that's already happened be one of two ways?


For instance, if the person is magickal or mystical.


You want either one, but if you had met them you would know.


But there are other more personal things too that I am deciding between.

[AnthroHeart]

I guess I could say "He's between 30 and 50 years old." instead of specifying an exact age.
It may be written as if it's already happened, but I can have some flexibility in there.

[EvolvingPhoenix]

How about you write yourself into a love triangle where you are dating two options and the ball is in your court to choose who you want?
Sure, the other will have to be rejected, but that doesn't mean they won't find somebody else amazing or that you can't both still be friends.

Just make sure you know VERY well what you're bringing to the table and can truly visualize them appreciating what you have to offer enough that you believe it makes sense you getting them.

[omar1399]

@IndigoGeminiWolf

Please disregard anything that does not seem true to you, for that is free will.

I can give you some advice on dating if your straight, because other sexual orientations are different. PM me if you want.

[GentleReckoning]

I would assume a 4-some would be the best way to go for seekers. 2 guys, 2 girls, almost all expression possible. Dissolving into total freedom as a community of like-minded seekers forms.

[Louisabell]

I do tend to think that living in small tribal groups would be more efficient than discrete family units, in terms of resources, time and seeking... but I think many things in society could be run more efficiently anyways.